Success In Love & Life…

The MOST Important Predictor Of Success In Love & Life…

(even if you are already a total bad-ass)!

How often do you find yourself making DECISIONS and choices each day by looking to those around you…

…what everyone else is doing.

…what you think you should be doing.

…what you THINK is possible based on the “evidence” in your life or relationship thus far?

THIS ALONE can kill your relationship.
>>> Here is how that “shows up” in marriage:

You don’t really ask for what you want or need because you feel like that’s not the “right” thing to do… and then 10 years later, you wake up and you are not “in love” anymore.

You are not as kind and compassionate to your spouse as you know that you truly are (out of hurt, resentment, and anger)… to protect yourself based on past pain.

THE SINGLE BIGGEST PREDICTOR OF SUCCESS IN LIFE & LOVE… is the ability to see possibilities even if the “reality” right in front of you seems hopeless.

(Isn’t that what Oprah just said in her beautiful speech… HOPE is the most powerful asset to being happy and successful?)

That’s why this is one of my FAVORITE quotes…

“Your present circumstances don’t determine where you can go; they merely determine where you start.” – Nido Qubein
*** TRY THIS…. think about where you really WANT to be in your relationship…

…would you love to be able to tell each other anything and feel totally heard?

….do you want to be able to wholeheartedly support each other’s dreams?

What is it for YOU????

Then, write that down…  AND start acting like it is ALREADY that way!

You will be amazed at the results… for real.


If you want to know HOW to actually do this consistently…  and you want the exact steps on how to create a relationship that you love… then, sign up for a free Discovery Call now!

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Talk soon,
Ray & Debbie Cherry, LMFT
@ Relationship