Why Communication Is NOT Your Biggest Priority

There are lots of people out there working on COMMUNICATION. They’re reading about it. They’re practicing it. They’re talking to their spouse over and over about HOW to communicate.

This is a good step. It’s an essential step.

But it’s also the step that anybody who can search on the internet can take.

Millions of people have read “Men Are From Mars & Women Are From Venus”, or taken the Love Languages quiz.

They began to dream bigger about what their marriage could truly look like if they would just communicate better. They got pumped up. They told their friends. This time it was different, they said…

But something went wrong.

Namely, the stuff didn’t work.


Because SUCCESS requires more than just reading about the relationship you want. It’s more than just practicing a few communication skills.

You also need to stay faithful to your vision, especially when your partner is being a jerk. You need to really heal things from the INSIDE out… to be the partner you want. That’s where things get tough.

See, it’s no use to practice validating skills for 15 minutes a day, and then spend the other 23 hours and 45 minutes living in a way that goes against everything you really want in your relationship.
It just doesn’t work.

What’s your plan for fixing your relationship with your spouse once and for all? Where did it come from? Are you sure that it’s sound? Is it working?

And even more: who do you need to BECOME to create that love you want?
What doubts do you have that will poison your effort before you even start? What fears are going to creep in, late at night, and stop you from doing the 2-3 key things that could ensure your success?

Everyone wants to succeed. Nobody wants to hear that they are not doing it “right”.

Have you been working hard on communication? If you have, good for you. Like I said, it’s essential. But sooner or later you need to get the TOOLS that are required to really CONNECT with your spouse.

A FAST, effective strategy… Expert support… A group of people who love you and want you to succeed.

Having those things is the difference between a dream marriage…and a day-dream.

No matter how motivated you might be, I’ve never seen ONE person make it without help. Not one. Not ever.

You’re not going to read an article, or watch a YouTube video, or read a free report that changes your life. It’s not going to happen.

Don’t waste another day… Get the COURAGE you need and invest in some real support. It doesn’t have to be with Relationship Remedies.

Not everyone wants total accountability and support to make a life-changing transformation in just a few weeks.

But get the help you need from someone who knows what they’re doing. It’s all right to focus on the communication skills, but be sure you have the foundation of a solid CONNECTION first!

If you need our help, click here:

We look forward to connecting,
Ray & Debbie Cherry, LMFT


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